Wednesday

A H.A.I.R.Y. 2013



6 sleeps till 2013 and all I can think about is hair!!!

Let me explain....

I'm Valarie Johnson, Certified Life Coach, MBA and Personal Strategic Planning Expert. My mission in life is very simple.....: To use my enthusiasm and creativity to teach and inspire others to use their own unique strengths, talents and abilities to live the life of their dreams....

And my dream for 2013 is to be do and have more hair....

Grow it! Show it! Long as I can grow my Hair!!!
Ok, if you know anything about me , you know I'm probably not raving about that stuff that sprouts out on our heads and other unmentionable places.... I'm talking about H.A.I.R.Y.

H- Hallelujah
A- Awesome/Awareness
I - Intentional
R- Rewarding/Revealing/Revolutionary
Y- Year


Let me break it down further
...HALLELUJAH is a word used to express praise or joy... not just an I'm happy kind of joy....but a spiritual, supernatural, awe inspired, I'm the Kings kid kind of joy... joy that resonates in your soul and rides up your spine into your throat, on your tongue and out your mouth kind of joy...joy that exclaims THANK YOU for do apparent visual reason...joy that connects you with the Great I AM...joy that surpasses logic.....(I believe you got it)

...AWESOME is just that...inspiring awe, remarkable...the frosting on the cake, the money tucked in the birthday card....awesome! Awareness, knowing what you know on a whole different level, knowing and living from a place of purity (love) and easily living with this love awareness that if it got to you had to have gone through the king since you are and I am the kings son...

...All year I've been writing that Success IS INTENTIONAL.... think about the simple act of bathing, you can't even properly clean yourself unless it is intentional...you can sit in hot water with soap sitting there to...but if that's all you do...you still dirty girl (in my Whoopie Goldberg from Ghost voice)... and you have the right to be intentional in every aspect of your life...because if you aren't someone else is, and they don't deserve the right to script your life! That's your birthright! Priceless and not available to the highest bidder! Success IS Intentional

...do you know the reward for eating fast food as your primary source of food.....death! Do you know the reward for living a life of boredom....death, many die at 30 and aren't buried for another 40 years....and rotting flesh stinks! So does rotting mindset, the late Zig Ziglar calls it stinking thinking.... Do you stink? ---I hope these words pierced you and REVEALED a darkside that needs to be released! Congrats!! now lets talk reward! What's the REWARD for intentional living.....you name it!!!! Think big, pray bold, and act intentionally! Let your mind soar beyond what is to what is (let that marinate) and imagine the rewards (goals dreams desires) that are ready to greet you....now see, hear, smell, taste and feel them now...this year!

...2013 is your YEAR... it is it is it is it is it is it is it is it is it is it is it is it is......and I'm not going to go back and forth with you on this either!

Make 2013 HAIRY friends!

PS. go ahead, lets be silly together- comment how you will make your 2013 HAIRY! - no razors allowed!!!               

Friday

Soul Math....(it all adds up, believe me)

10 times a day would you actively give thanks to higher powers that created the Universe?
9 people that you love would love to hear from you....would you reach out to them today just to say "I Love you.......
8 hours is a usual workday....how much of that is given toward the work or fulfilling your souls vision for your life.....
7 people reading this just wondered what was their souls vision for their life..... if you don't know just ask your soul and do nothing else until you get the answer (you will get what you ask)
6 hours out of an 8 hour day would be a successful day (in my measurements) if those 6 out of 8 hours were invested in action prompted from the soul



5 times a day is a good idea to feed your body....keeping in mind you are a soul with a body, but you have to take care of that body....
4 days out of a 7 day week...operating at 75-80% Soul mission is a great and productive week!
3 more people have just gotten clarity of what their soul is urging them toward (are you one of the 3?)
2 is the number representing the duality in which we all live in....dueling forces (body and soul), and to be led by the soul is to live beyond the senses (seeing more than outer circumstances)
1 day this will all make perfect sense...and it's a ok it today isn't that day....
So what? Why does this matter?
When you know why this matter, it will them make sense.....

I'm Valarie Johnson, Personal Strategic Planning Ecpert, MBA, Certified Life Coach. My mission is to  use my enthusiasm and creativity to teach and inspire others to use their own unique strengths, talents and abilities to live the life of their dreams....

I'd love to speak with you regarding your souls purpose.....strengths, talents and abilities...
visit http://www.wowyourlifenow.blogspot to secure your appointment with destiny!
May God bless you over and over and over and may you  know the pleasure of being used by God.

Host your own pity party (literally, and it IS what you are thinking)!

I'm Valarie Johnson and with Gods grace...I've overcome
molestation and abuse at a very early age from multiple relatives
the chaos of living in an environment with 2 alcoholic parents
dealing with a grandmother who suffered with schizophrenia
and so on and so on......


To that I say, those things hurt, they are my past not my present and certainly not my future... I released them and now soar beyond anything I could ever have imagined possible!
Pain is pain...this may not be your story but 99.99999% of us have suffered through some kind of pain or nonideal circumstance in our lives...... some of us, even as adults, are still suffering at the hands of something that happened 20 years ago....

#1 I am sorry that you had to endure those things. My heart goes out to you.
#2 I encourage you to adopt the forgiveness definition i once heard on Oprah Winfrey - Forgiveness- giving up the hope that the past could ever be any different...
#3 Taking back your champion status you were born with!
#4 It is absolutely possible to live a life of peace and joy, regardless of what happened to you


Ok- here's a radical crazy way to do so...... throw yourself a pity party!
Literally host a party wherein you release all the angst and memories of what was and what could have been....and declare yourself a new creature and allow those things to no longer own you...
So what would a 'pity party' look like?
#1 host it an a dark and damp venue or some non ideal location
#2 whatever your least favorite color, use this for the  decorations
#3 Have a cake, a stale cake, with the words Good bye pain!
#4 Whatever are your least favorite foods, have those and eat them (for the last time)
#5 Least favorite music, play that!
#6 This is the one part that differs.... invite people who truly love and appreciate you.... explain to them this is the final hoorah for those memories...
#7 Wear the most unflattering clothes you can find and ask your guest to do the same...
#8 Have the party and release the pity
#9 At the end of the evening, when the food is gone and he music has ended.....conclude with each guest welcoming the new you.... - go and change into your best outfit and have each love you and share a new story about how beautiful, warm, kind and wonderful you truly are!

Now I'm serious about this.... if you do so 2 things will happen- everytime your mind wants to return to the thoughts of the past, you will have a reminder that they were released... and a new perspective on processing them....
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result...If those things bind you and hold you....DO SOMETHING RADICALLY DIFFERENT TO RELEASE THEM....

I'm Valarie Johnson Personal Strategic Planning Expert, MBA and Certified Life Coach- My mission in life: to use my enthusiasm and creativity to teach and inspire others to use their own unique strengths, talents and abilities to live the life of their dreams.....

Every FLAT TIRE happens for a reason



Every flat tire happens for a reason ~ The Energy Bus

Every problem has a gift for you in it's hands..... what do flat tires do for you?

Slow you down......
   Create a need.........
        Force you to seek alternatives......
              Use the resources you already have.....
                    Halt movement.....................................
                         STOP you ............................................

What is the flat tire in your life gifting you?

Are you realizing it is a gift that creates a shift in your momentum?

Wednesday

How closely are you living your Personal Mission Statement daily?

A few weeks ago, my partner went to a well known restaurant. She dined in and ordered a " TO GO" lunch for me. When she brought it to me I noticed the salad and fries were missing. Turns out, the restaurant forgot to complete the to go order.She called to seek an answer and resolution....This is now the manager handled the call

This manager 1st apologized for their error....next he asked for the name of the person whose to go order was incomplete....He then asked to speak to me.....He used my name, personally apologized to me and offered to make it right, then made sure what he saw as making it right  matched or exceeded my expectations. It did...



Was this guy just having a great day, or was he living the company mission statement and his own personal mission statement?

One thing is certain- His actions have made me a Raving Fan!!!

Are you living your personal mission statement on a daily, regular and consistent basis?
Do you have a personal mission statement?
Are you beginning to realize the importance of having self chosen principles and directive as your daily guide?

Create your Personal Strategic Plan today!

Coach Valj

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